Simple Thoughts.... Complex Thinking..... In Search For An Answer
~* Friday, September 23, 2005 *~
Just read this article on msn "Which husband did you marry?" leaves me thinking... cos just met up with my sec sch pals.. one of them is getting married next month.. which one would you choose? That also leads me to the qn whether would you marry the one you love or love the one you marry?...
It's really complex.. love itself is very irrational matter.. I'm still trying very hard to figure it out.. with lots of heart breaks, fears and still no answers... and still going on strong...
But men.. some of them just have low EQ, bad communication skills.. others are too good to be true.. shallow and wat esle... Yet there are the few rare and in between, the elites that we fantasize out of our imagination whom turn out otherwise... No1 is perfect anyway.. so i think it is better to be with someone who you know you can trust, who you would be commited and be commited to you.. who is willing to work at it even though the sparks and passion is gone.. because.. you'll want to marry someone who has "husband material" rather than "boyfriend material".. cos this way.. you'll know that it'll last... the rest.. you just always know that they'll be ard.. in other ways of cos...
However, those that i have in my life right now... Well, I can't do without any of ya either! Just thot i would share this interesting article with you... read on...
It's really complex.. love itself is very irrational matter.. I'm still trying very hard to figure it out.. with lots of heart breaks, fears and still no answers... and still going on strong...
But men.. some of them just have low EQ, bad communication skills.. others are too good to be true.. shallow and wat esle... Yet there are the few rare and in between, the elites that we fantasize out of our imagination whom turn out otherwise... No1 is perfect anyway.. so i think it is better to be with someone who you know you can trust, who you would be commited and be commited to you.. who is willing to work at it even though the sparks and passion is gone.. because.. you'll want to marry someone who has "husband material" rather than "boyfriend material".. cos this way.. you'll know that it'll last... the rest.. you just always know that they'll be ard.. in other ways of cos...
However, those that i have in my life right now... Well, I can't do without any of ya either! Just thot i would share this interesting article with you... read on...
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