Simple Thoughts.... Complex Thinking..... In Search For An Answer
~* Friday, January 02, 2009 *~
I went to back track to new year resolutions for 2008...... and realised I didn't really made anything concrete!! I wouldn't want 2009 to be the same... here goes!!
Resolutions for 2009 and good advice!
1) Don't get caught up in someones's else's game-playing
2) Accept that I can't make everyone like me!
3) In the long run, I probably won't regret spending a large chuck of savings on a fantastic overseas trip. As long as I can afford to survive when I get back.. do it!
4) Self-pity won't help me.. so stop whining!
5) You can't argue with a person who's not thinking logically. Don't frustrate myself trying.. so take a deep breadth, count to three, then walk away...
6) Nothing is meant to be. It just is. Accept that sometimes you can't influence the way things turn out, and sometimes you can't.
7) Don't indulge in gossiping, it can be hurtful and dangerous..
8) Complaining is a waste of my time.. unless followed up by solution and then action
9) Ignore pple who are mean.. they are usually sad pple inside..
10) Think b4 you shout, send a vicious email, slam the door/phone. Always remember that a split second of consideration save you years of regret.
11) Shit happens, deal with it.
12) My bf => financial advisor (WIP), computer guy(check), mechanic(check), electrician(check) and plumber(check)... I'll be very nice to him...
13) Finish my CPA.. 2 more to go!
14) Do one positive thing for your health.. start exercising!
15) People don't think as often about me as often as I think they do, so stop obsessing about it!
16) Don't expect life to be miralously change.. without any effort...
17) Bring a emergency toothbrush around...and try to brush more often after lunch.. etc...
18) Don't have any credit card debt! (haha.. I never do)
19) Get a really good bag item and shoes.. great haircut(check)... cos never undestimate the importance...
20) Make decisions motivated by positivity, curosity, desire for stimulation.
21) Do whatever I dread most on monday morning.. then I can forget about it once done.
22) Make a valuable contribution to the welfare of the world...
23) Recognise that famous, rich, beautiful people are not neccessarily happy than me!
24) Learn about perspective, empathy, patience.. 3 of the most valuable life skills no one can teach me..
25) Have nice cleanly pluck eyebrows..
26) Sometimes you need to bite the bullet and say sorry
27) Have good manners, greet people by name..
28) Try to be more spontanous.. try everything once!
29) Help others, you never know when you might be the person who needs help in return.
30) Know the importance of family and close friend.. even though I'm abroad.. always make effort to be in touch!
That's a wrap for the new year!! :D
Resolutions for 2009 and good advice!
1) Don't get caught up in someones's else's game-playing
2) Accept that I can't make everyone like me!
3) In the long run, I probably won't regret spending a large chuck of savings on a fantastic overseas trip. As long as I can afford to survive when I get back.. do it!
4) Self-pity won't help me.. so stop whining!
5) You can't argue with a person who's not thinking logically. Don't frustrate myself trying.. so take a deep breadth, count to three, then walk away...
6) Nothing is meant to be. It just is. Accept that sometimes you can't influence the way things turn out, and sometimes you can't.
7) Don't indulge in gossiping, it can be hurtful and dangerous..
8) Complaining is a waste of my time.. unless followed up by solution and then action
9) Ignore pple who are mean.. they are usually sad pple inside..
10) Think b4 you shout, send a vicious email, slam the door/phone. Always remember that a split second of consideration save you years of regret.
11) Shit happens, deal with it.
12) My bf => financial advisor (WIP), computer guy(check), mechanic(check), electrician(check) and plumber(check)... I'll be very nice to him...
13) Finish my CPA.. 2 more to go!
14) Do one positive thing for your health.. start exercising!
15) People don't think as often about me as often as I think they do, so stop obsessing about it!
16) Don't expect life to be miralously change.. without any effort...
17) Bring a emergency toothbrush around...and try to brush more often after lunch.. etc...
18) Don't have any credit card debt! (haha.. I never do)
19) Get a really good bag item and shoes.. great haircut(check)... cos never undestimate the importance...
20) Make decisions motivated by positivity, curosity, desire for stimulation.
21) Do whatever I dread most on monday morning.. then I can forget about it once done.
22) Make a valuable contribution to the welfare of the world...
23) Recognise that famous, rich, beautiful people are not neccessarily happy than me!
24) Learn about perspective, empathy, patience.. 3 of the most valuable life skills no one can teach me..
25) Have nice cleanly pluck eyebrows..
26) Sometimes you need to bite the bullet and say sorry
27) Have good manners, greet people by name..
28) Try to be more spontanous.. try everything once!
29) Help others, you never know when you might be the person who needs help in return.
30) Know the importance of family and close friend.. even though I'm abroad.. always make effort to be in touch!
That's a wrap for the new year!! :D
